2026
The Missing Connection
There I was—holding a charger head in one hand, a phone in the other, and a growing sense of frustration in my heart. Everything I needed seemed to be there… except the one thing that actually made it all work—the cable. Without it, the charger was useless, the socket irrelevant, and the phone powerless. My […]
The Day I Stopped Running from the Word “Widow”
Today, God did something I did not expect… and honestly, something I had been quietly avoiding. He placed me in the presence of other widows. Not in theory. Not in prayer. Not in a sermon. In real life. In a room. With women who understood without me having to explain every sentence, every sigh, every […]
Purpose over pain
That morning, I walked into the supermarket like a woman on a mission—no, like a woman on a miracle. You see, this was not just any shopping trip. This was history in the making. For the first time in a long time, I was not going to assemble a “cake” out of sliced bread, whipped […]
Chai Na Short Skirt
Many years ago, I needed to take a driving test. Now let me start by confessing something: I already knew how to drive. My mother had taught us how to drive long before driving schools became fashionable. In our house, driving was not a luxury skill — it was a survival skill. If the car […]
4 days late, Fully paid
A TESTIMONY OF GRACE: WHEN GOD WRITES THE ENDING Disclaimer: My friend has allowed me to share this testimony. The names used are not the real ones. Naomi stayed with me for five days. Her mother had asked if she could come over for a short while because she lives in another county. Naomi is […]
Preparation, Faith, and Growth: A Mother’s Covenant to Live in Peace and Lead by Example
My dear children, I want to speak to you not as someone who has everything figured out, but as your mother — a woman who is learning, growing, and choosing to become better every single day. There are moments when you see me with a headache. Moments when I look rushed. Moments when I am […]
When Sacrifice Becomes a Habit — And Boundaries Become Holy
For most of my life, I believed that being a good woman meant being a sacrificing woman. I thought love was proven by how much I could endure, how much I could stretch, and how quietly I could carry everyone else’s burdens. If there was food, I made sure others ate first. If there was […]